What to Do If You’re Facing a Contested Divorce in Massachusetts

Divorce is hard enough. But when both spouses can’t agree on major issues—like child custody, property division, alimony, or even whether to divorce in the first place—the process becomes a contested divorce. These cases are more complex, emotionally charged, and legally demanding.

If you're facing a contested divorce in Massachusetts, you're not alone—and you're not without options. At Krispin Law, we’re here to protect your rights, your children, and your future through every stage of the process.

What Makes a Divorce “Contested”?

A divorce becomes contested when the spouses disagree on one or more of the following:

• Whether to divorce at all
• How to divide marital property or debt
• Whether alimony should be paid, and how much
• Who should have custody or parenting time
• Child support amounts or responsibilities

These disagreements can arise at the start or even during the divorce process, especially as emotions run high or new issues come to light.

The Process of a Contested Divorce in Massachusetts

1. Filing the Complaint: One spouse files for divorce citing an “irretrievable breakdown” or a fault-based ground.
2. Serving the Other Party: Legal notice is delivered, and the other party files a response.
3. Discovery Phase: Both parties exchange financial and legal documents, answer questions under oath, and may undergo depositions.
4. Motions & Temporary Orders: The court may issue temporary decisions on child custody, support, or use of marital property during the process.
5. Negotiation or Mediation: Many contested cases are resolved before trial through lawyer-guided negotiation or formal mediation.
6. Trial: If no agreement is reached, the case proceeds to trial where a judge makes the final decisions.

Contested divorces can take months—or even years—depending on the complexity and level of cooperation between parties.

Tips If You’re Facing a Contested Divorce

• Stay Organized: Keep all legal, financial, and communication records. These may be crucial in court.
• Stay Civil: Avoid fighting over text, social media, or in front of children—it can harm your case.
• Don’t Make Major Changes: Avoid moving out, taking children, or emptying accounts without legal advice.
• Hire the Right Attorney Early: A skilled family lawyer can guide you strategically, protect your interests, and help resolve conflicts constructively.

How Krispin Law Can Help

At Krispin Law, we understand how overwhelming and painful contested divorces can be. You’re not just navigating legal rules—you’re navigating heartbreak, stress, and real-life consequences. That’s why we bring a balance of tough advocacy and compassionate guidance to every case.

Here’s how we support you:

• Aggressive representation in high-conflict situations, including custody disputes and asset division.
• Strategic planning from day one, to protect your financial interests, parental rights, and peace of mind.
• Skilled negotiation and mediation support, to avoid unnecessary trials when possible.
• Clear, consistent communication so you always understand where your case stands and what’s next.

We don’t just litigate—we listen, we guide, and we fight for what matters most to you.

Frequently Asked Questions

How long does a contested divorce take in Massachusetts?

It depends on the complexity and level of conflict, but many take 12–24 months from start to finish.

Can we settle part of the case and still go to trial for the rest?

Yes. You can resolve certain issues (like property) through agreement and leave others (like custody) to be decided by the court.

Do I have to prove wrongdoing in a contested divorce?

Not necessarily. Most divorces in MA are “no-fault,” but you can raise issues like abuse or infidelity if they affect custody or support.

Is mediation worth trying in a contested case?

Absolutely. Mediation can be an effective way to resolve disputes without the cost and emotional strain of a trial.

Ready to Take Control of a Difficult Divorce?

Contested divorces are tough—but you don’t have to go through it alone. Krispin Law is here to help you take charge of your case, protect your rights, and move toward a better future.
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